An anti-gay-marriage tea party, French style?
Last
month, marchers filled the streets of Paris and Lyon to protest
same-sex marriage, which became legal in France last year. The day after
the demonstrations, François Hollande’s Socialist government announced
that it would not be putting forward new legislation to make it easier
for gay couples to adopt children or have them with the help of
surrogate mothers. Although the government insisted that the decision
had nothing to do with the protests, hardly anyone believes it.
Hollande’s gay-rights retreat was a major victory for La Manif Pour Tous
(The Protest for Everyone), the group that has organized a series of
massive protests since November, 2012, when the government first
introduced the gay-marriage law.
Political street demonstrations
are so much a part of French life that they have their own nickname, la
manif, short for manifestation, or protest. They have a long history of
blocking or undoing legislation, toppling governments, and reshaping the
country—sometimes quite literally. Paris itself was redesigned, in the
eighteen-sixties, after rioters took control of the city in both 1830
and 1848. Under Napoleon III, Georges-Eugène Haussmann levelled the
narrow, labyrinthine streets of medieval Paris and replaced them with
today’s sweeping boulevards—in part to make it more difficult for
protestors to barricade parts of the city. Still, in 1968, student
protests effectively ended the political career of Charles de Gaulle,
and, in 1995, forced the government of Alain Juppé to withdraw a series
of proposed pension reforms.
La Manif, with some important
exceptions, has been mostly a left-wing phenomenon. But, in the past
year, it has assumed a different color. La Manif Pour Tous, which was
created to protest gay marriage, not only coöpted the term manif but
stole the appealing language of the law itself, which was called “Le
Mariage Pour Tous” (“Marriage for Everyone”). “A rather brilliant media
coup,” Danielle Tartakowsky, who recently published a book on right-wing
protests called “Les Droites et La Rue,” told me.
Some in France
have compared La Manif Pour Tous to the Tea Party movement in the
United States. At a difficult moment in French life—with unemployment at
eleven per cent, Hollande unable to gain traction, and a pessimistic
public—La Manif Pour Tous has surprised political parties on the right
and the left with its ability to bring people into the streets. “Our
country is in the midst of an economic crisis at the same time there is a
social crisis,” Ludovine de la Rochère, the president of the Manif Pour
Tous, said at a recent rally. “More profoundly, we are in a crisis of
meaning, a moral crisis. The French are the biggest consumers of
anti-depressant drugs in Europe. … And yet, within our reach, there is a
reservoir, a bearer of meaning, of energy, of solidarity, of
relationships: the family, the source of all the human and economic
riches of the nation—of all nations—and a barrier against crime, against
despair, and against all extremisms.”
While there are some
common elements, the differences between La Manif Pour Tous and the Tea
Party are perhaps even more interesting. Social issues—family, marriage,
sexuality, homosexuality—have suddenly become highly charged in France,
but they play out so differently that they illustrate what’s
distinctive about France—and the U.S.—in ways that scramble many notions
of left and right, conservative and liberal.
What is similar to
the Tea Party is that La Manif Pour Tous emerged outside the structure
of the traditional French parties—both the Gaullist U.M.P. and the
far-right National Front of Marine Le Pen. As with the Tea Party, its
supporters claim to represent a silent majority that is not being heard
by the élites in the capital. But the Tea Party turned quickly to
electoral politics, with what can be seen as either an accession to or a
partial takeover of the Republican Party. “La Manif Pour Tous has gone
out of its way to keep its distance from both the U.M.P. and the
National Front,” Tartakowsky said. It also rejects being labelled as on
the right.
Indeed, some of the movement’s positions would place
it in the center or center-left of the American debate on social issues.
For example, La Manif Pour Tous does not oppose abortion, even though
many of its leaders say that, as a private matter, they are against it.
“It’s not our issue,” de la Rochère has said repeatedly, when pressed.
La
Manif Pour Tous leaders virtually never mention God or the Church,
although most are observant Catholics. The French bishops have stayed in
the background. Unlike their American counterparts, the French are much
less comfortable with religion in public discourse. “This movement is
inconceivable without Catholicism,” Tartakowsky said. “And its success
is partly dependent on its keeping its religious roots out of sight.”
La
Manif Pour Tous has not objected to France’s civil-union law, known as
PACS, passed in 1999, which allows gay—and heterosexual—couples to gain
legal recognition for their unions without marrying. “It is perfectly
correct that gay couples should have legal protection,” Albéric Dumont,
another of the movement’s founders and a law student in Paris, told me
by phone.
Arguably, the lesser status of PACS unions has done
more to weaken the institution of marriage than any number of gay
weddings could. Heterosexual couples have made much more use of PACS,
choosing to register their unions rather than have a full wedding. There
are nearly as many PACS unions each year as marriages. Fifty-seven per
cent of French children are born out of wedlock (up from thirty-seven
per cent twenty years ago), including the four children of President
Hollande, who has never married. The new gay-marriage law, which has
allowed seven thousand gay couples (many of them middle-aged) to marry,
would hardly seem to be France’s biggest problem.
La Manif Pour
Tous supporters talk less about defending traditional marriage than
about their opposition to the very idea of gay and lesbian people having
children. “Every person is the product of the union between a father
and a mother,” Dumont told me. “We feel that every child has a right to a
father and mother.” By contrast, same-sex couples raising children has
been a common and increasingly accepted practice in the U.S. In 2012,
the Republican Presidential candidate and devout Mormon Mitt Romney
said, “If two people of the same gender want to live together, want to
have a loving relationship, or even to adopt a child—in my state,
individuals of the same sex were able to adopt children. In my view,
that’s something that people have a right to do.”
This is partly
because the U.S. has long allowed single, unmarried people to adopt,
without asking them about their sexual orientation. There is a
generation or two of Americans who have been raised by gay people, some
of them by couples, some not. Numerous studies show that the children
raised in these families are as happy and well-adjusted as other
children.
By contrast, France has largely restricted adoption to
married couples, and artificial insemination to married couples or
(heterosexual) unmarried couples who can show that they have been
together for at least two years. Unmarried individuals who wanted to
adopt have generally had to do so outside France, then bring the
children home. The state has given strong preference to married couples,
Nathalie Parent, the president of Enfance & Familles d’Adoption
(E.F.A.), an N.G.O. that helps adopting families, explained. “In the
French civil code, adoption appears under the heading of marriage,”
Parent said. “It is seen as a right of a married couple.”
It is
the existence of gay marriage that has brought the question of adoption
by gay couples to the forefront. While La Manif Pour Tous insists that
it is standing up for common sense and the rights of children, others
see simple homophobia. The group SOS Homophobie, in its latest annual
report, notes a rise in homophobic incidents. “They may not be
homophobes, but they are the source of an unprecedented increase in
homophobic incidents recorded by SOS Homophobie,” the group’s report on
2012 states.
Opposition to gay marriage represents an important
shift in right-wing politics in France, according to Éric Fassin, a
professor of sociology and political science at the University of Paris
VIII. During the Sarkozy years, the principal source of anxiety was
immigration—in particular, Muslim immigration. Sarkozy, like others on
the right, went out of his way to adopt liberal positions on social
issues while portraying Muslims as unfit for citizenship because they
were hopelessly misogynistic and homophobic. But the surprising strength
of La Manif Pour Tous has some on the right considering new alliances.
In late January, opponents of gay marriage sent out thousands of text
messages to French parents, telling them to keep their children out of
school because there was going to be a lesson about how boys could
become girls and girls, boys. (Also, “training in masturbation.”) The
message was reportedly targeted at Muslim parents at about a hundred
schools, and led to high levels of absenteeism.
“Under the cover
of fighting against homophobia and for gender equality, they are
spreading the ideology of gender theory and homosexual propaganda,”
Abdallah Dliouah, a Muslim cleric, was quoted as saying in Le Monde.
The
Ministry of Education has undertaken a program called the ABCs of
Equality to combat gender stereotypes, but insists that the warnings in
the text messages were nothing but false rumors. Dumont, of La Manif
Pour Tous, did not back down, pointing to a movie, “Tomboy,” that was
shown in schools.
Dumont saw an alliance with Muslim groups as a
potential benefit. “These social questions have caused some Muslims to
approach our movement, and it offers them a way of participating in
political life,” he said.
The right, said Fassin, the sociology
professor, “is going to have to figure out how to articulate the sexual
and racial question.” It may be getting closer. Christine Boutin, a
Catholic conservative within the U.M.P., who had been relegated to the
sidelines for the past few years but is returning to prominence on the
wave of the anti-gay-marriage protests, recently declared, “The dam
between the right and the extreme right has fallen.”
Manif Pour Tous demonstrators in Paris brought balloons bearing the
motif of a 'traditional' family: a man, a woman, a boy and a girl.
France's future at risk from 'unnatural families', say conservative protesters
Interior minister Manuel Valls dismisses tens of thousands of demonstrators on streets of Paris and Lyon as 'anti-republicans'
Kim Willsher in Paris
Sun 2 Feb 2014 18.05 GMT
Under
a sea of fluttering pink and blue flags, the Manif Pour Tous (Demo for
all) movement's complaints were eclectic and apocalyptic – with a dash
of paranoia and conspiracy thrown in for good measure.
"If
we don't stop this government there be no future for France," said
Médéric, 20, a student. "The family is at risk. France is at risk. You
wait, it'll be euthanasia next."
On Sunday, protesters –
80,000 police said, 500,000 claimed the organisers – again took to the
boulevards of Paris and Lyon in a show of force against the French
government and in support of "the family". In case anyone was in doubt
about what those words meant, the logo on the flags, badges, stickers
and banners showed a "traditional" family: father, mother, son,
daughter.
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The protesters were
united against gay marriage and adoption first. They lost that battle
last April when parliament approved same-sex marriage. Since then, they
have continued their opposition but moved on to "the family", which they
believe is threatened by a proposed family law expected in the spring.
Recent
demonstrations, however, are a vocal and visible expression of a more
febrile atmosphere spreading across France, where the popularity of the
Socialist president, François Hollande, is at rock bottom, the
mainstream centre-right opposition has no clear leadership, and the
far-right Front National is forecast to make significant gains in local
and European elections.
The widespread sense of
dissatisfaction and disillusion has encouraged extremism, as seen at a
Paris "Day of Anger" protest last Sunday, which degenerated into
antisemitic slogans, including "Jews out", Nazi salutes and quenelles,
the trademark of controversial comedian Dieudonné M'bala M'bala.
Hollande
describes the movements as "repressive and regressive", while the
interior minister, Manuel Valls, has likened the atmosphere to the
economic, social and political crisis that brought violent
"anti-politics" demonstrations to France in the 1930s.
If
Sunday's demonstrators spoke of despising the government, Valls made it
clear the feeling was mutual. He told Le Journal du Dimanche that the
country was witnessing the formation of a "Tea Party à la Française".
Recent protests were, Valls declared, a "revolt of the antis:
anti-elite, anti-state, anti-tax, anti-parliament, anti-journalists …
but also and above all, antisemites, racists and homophobes. Put simply,
they are anti-republicans," he said.
Symbolic of the
sense of collective hysteria was the row last week over so-called gender
theory, which protesters claimed was being taught at schools.
Individuals with right-wing links were accused of spreading unfounded
rumours that the government's ABCD of Equality programme, aimed at
ending sexual stereotyping in schools, involved "masturbation classes".
As a result, parents at 100 schools pulled their children from classes,
convinced the government was meddling with their identity and sexual
orientation.
A cartoon in Le Parisien lampooned the
scaremongering, showing a boy asking his father to tell him a scary
bedtime story. The father replies: "The government plans to make mothers
have abortions and put the foetus in the womb of another woman who will
sell it to a homosexual couple who will decide whether to bring it up a
girl or a boy."
Laurent Gougeon, a printer who
attended the Paris protest with his wife and son, said he was against
IVF for same-sex couples and the teaching of gender theory, and was
unconvinced by official denials that any such thing was happening.
"There is a threat to the family in France today. If we don't do something the family will cease to exist," he said.
A
retired couple, who did not want to be named, had driven from Normandy
to attend the protest. "Look around you, here are traditional French
people who don't normally demonstrate. We are good citizens. We go to
work and we mind our own business, but we are afraid for our children.
The government wants to destroy the family," said the woman.
Maylis
Gillier, a 19-year-old student, agreed: "The government is trying to
create a new type of family, which is not natural. We are very against
surrogacy and the marketing of women in this way."
Her
friend Domitille Le Prince added: "We're called extremists because we
don't think same-sex marriage is natural. Nobody is listening to us.
They talk about equality as if it means you can do what you want and
somehow everything is rosy. But it's not fine. It's not rosy."
A
group of young men and women calling themselves the Salopards
(Bastards) and wearing pink dungarees "to show you can be against gay
marriage without being homophobic", was also there to "defend the
family".
Jessica, 24, was one of many to voice the
wider malaise. "This government has nothing but contempt for us. Nobody
is listening. We are not traditional, old, French Catholics; we are
young and we want to be heard," she said.


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